Hygiene & Personal Care
All attendees must be freshly showered before arriving and dressed to impress (sexy/stylish). Men should also ensure their fingernails are clean and trimmed short.
Attendance & Event Policies
We cannot guarantee who will attend each event. To account for last-minute cancellations or no-shows, we may slightly overbook or have a few men on standby. We do not guarantee or pressure anyone into participating in any sexual acts, our role is to provide a safe and comfortable space for you to connect, and what you choose to do is entirely up to you.
All participants must be 18+. If you appear under 25, you will be required to show a valid Photo ID.
Do not bring any unapproved guests. Only those who have applied and been approved may attend.
Phones, Cameras & Filming
Phones and cameras must remain in your locker at all times. If you need to use your phone, do so in the locker room only. If a lady or couple want their experience filmed, all participants must provide explicit consent beforehand. If filming is a requirement for the event and you are not comfortable being recorded, do not apply. Only designated filming is allowed, attending a filmed event does not grant permission for others to take photos or videos.
Safe Sex & STI Testing
Always practice safe sex, condoms are provided. If you are attending a private bareback gang bang, you must present an STI test dated no more than 2 weeks prior the event date.
The My Ultimate Fantasy phone number will be used to validate applications, vetting single men and communications on the day of an event. This phone is not always on and should not be used for general questions. Please use our contact form or email address for any questions you may have.
Fringe Play
The following types of play are not permitted at our group play parties. Hard BDSM, blood play, breath play & medical play.
Single Men
Only apply for a private event if you meet ALL the stated requirements. Do not attempt to justify why you should be an exception. If you do not meet the criteria, this is not the right event for you.
Honesty is essential. Do not provide false information on your application to gain approval. If you do not match the required description upon arrival, you will be turned away without a refund. For example, if a lady specifically requests men with hair, and you arrive bald, you will not be admitted. The same is true for any other specified attributes.
If you refuse to answer calls or text messages, do not provide a required photo, or stop responding after applying, you will not be considered for any events. Future applications will likely be ignored without a response.
Reliability is key, if you are approved to attend an event but fail to show up, you may not be invited back again. These events are curated for the ladies, and maintaining the right numbers is crucial to their experience.
Consent
While this is covered also on our How it Works page it’s important to understand that following the rules of consent will be taken seriously. No means No, and safe words if shared must be obeyed. Consent must be Freely given, it is Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic and Specific. You cannot provide consent if you are intoxicated or under the influence of drugs. Do not arrive intoxicated or drink too much at the party. If you do you may be asked to sit out or possibly be asked to leave. This is a drug free event. If drug use is observed you will be asked to leave immediately and you will be banned from attending any future events.
Additional Rules for Bareback Parties
If you want to have a private bareback party or attend one you must have regular STI tests. Adelaide Sexual Health Centre and Stigma Health are both great services. If you do use ASHC we recommend getting your results by mail only as the text message response is very poor. If you do get your results by mail it will take longer, so you’ll need to account for this. We recommend using Stigma Health or if you have a good relationship with your GP have them refer you for a full STI screen including swabs, blood and urine testing. With Stigma Health you’ll get your results in approximately 1-3 days. It is a requirement for all participants to show their tests on the day of a bareback event.
If you have any questions contact us.