To ensure every guest enjoys a safe, respectful, and unforgettable experience, we’ve outlined the following rules. Understanding and respecting these rules is a condition of attending our events.
General Rules
- Consent: Consent is the foundation of everything we do. We follow the FRIES model.
- Freely Given – No pressure, manipulation, or coercion.
- Reversible – Anyone can change their mind and withdraw consent at any time.
- Informed – Everyone must have a full understanding of what they are agreeing to.
- Enthusiastic – Participation should come with genuine desire and excitement.
- Specific – Consent to one act does not imply consent to another. Boundaries must always be respected.
- Privacy & Discretion:
- Phones must be kept in lockers at all times. No cameras or recording equipment are permitted unless it’s a private event with everyone’s consent.
- Respect the confidentiality of all attendees. Do not share names, details, or event experiences outside the group without permission.
- Conduct & Respect:
- Treat all guests, hosts, and staff with respect.
- Disruptive, unsafe, or disrespectful behaviour will result in removal and possible permanent exclusion.
- Respect boundaries, personal property, and the authority of the hosts.
- Housekeeping & Venue Etiquette:
- Guests are expected to clean up after themselves. This includes changing sheets and wiping down equipment.
- Couples who arrive together must also leave together.
- Please keep noise to a minimum when arriving, leaving, or using the outdoor areas.
- Play Guidelines:
- Fringe Play: Choking/breath play, blood play, medical play, and extreme BDSM are not permitted.
- Light BDSM (e.g., spanking, flogging) is acceptable with clear consent.
- Alcohol & Drugs:
- Moderate drinking is allowed, but excessive intoxication is not. If intoxication compromises safety, organisers may ask you to pause or leave.
- We maintain a zero-tolerance policy for illegal drug use. Offering or using drugs at an event will result in immediate removal and permanent exclusion.
- Cleanliness & Hygiene:
- All guests must arrive freshly showered.
- Men must ensure nails are short, clean, and not sharp.
- Towels and hygiene supplies are provided; please use them.
- Safe Sex Practices:
- We recommend safe sex at all times. Latex condoms are provided for all events.
- Attendees are strongly encouraged to maintain regular STI testing and sexual health checks.
Additional Rules for Single Men
- Applications – You must meet all listed requirements for an event. If not, please wait for one that is better suited to you.
- Vetting – By applying, you agree to our vetting process. If you do not respond to texts, emails, or calls, you will be added to our ban list and future applications will not be considered. We always text before calling.
Enforcement
Event organisers and designated hosts have final authority on all rules. Guests who do not comply may be asked to leave immediately and may face permanent exclusion from future events.